artificial ecological succession

Aug. 14th, 2025 06:47 am
sistawendy: me in my nun costume looking stern (stern nun)
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I have two sourwood trees that came with my house. (Identification thanks to the Tickler and their magic app.) Sourwoods are native to the southeastern US, and anyone who gardens in the Pacific northwest will know what I'm about to say: sourwoods don't have the drought tolerance that they need for this area, and indeed most of western North America. One of the two trees looks as if it's at death's door even with my best efforts at watering. My tiny little front yard gets a surprising amount of sun.

What to do? Bop down to Urban Earth nursery — the one run by dykes, as opposed to the one run by gay men a few blocks away that specializes in indoor plants — and get a little Lawson cypress. I verified with the aforementioned dykes that it should be able to handle the sun, and it should be narrow enough to fit into the tight spot.

I rejected the big, beautiful ginkgo because I would have had to get it home half a mile uphill without a vehicle, and I'm not sure it would have been narrow enough.

I also have to get ride of the ailing sourwood, which is competing for space in my tiny yard waste bin with two other species of dead plant.

groove failure

Aug. 11th, 2025 06:44 am
sistawendy: me in a Gorey vamp costume with the back of my hand to my forehead (hand staple forehead)
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There's an annual daytime ravey thing that's usually (Foreshadowing!) in Myrtle Edwards park. Late yesterday afternoon, I saw that on my calendar and thought, 'Oh yeah! I better head down there.' After an hour or so of riding a bus and walking on, it must be said, a lovely afternoon into Myrtle Edwards, I saw a whole bunch of construction. And then I remembered.

This year, the event was in Gas Works Park, much closer to where I live. I'd even put that in my calendar item under location. And I'd seen with my own eyes the excellent reason for the change in venue.

I didn't go to Gas Works. That would have meant more walking on trashed feet, and waiting longer for the bus. Le sigh. See you next year.

Moral: changes to regular times or locations should go in the title in all caps.

Nun tries to club and misses.

Aug. 10th, 2025 12:09 pm
sistawendy: me in profile in a Renaissance dress at a party (contemplative red)
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Got dolled up for Hot Flash Inferno with T. T is way more into that night than I am: the lowest common denominator '90s and earlier music, the normie dykes. (T has a horror story about their attitude toward "gold star" lesbians.) I wasn't feeling it to the point that I was checking out on the dance floor so hard that T noticed. When you're trans, you get really good at transporting yourself to somewhere else mentally.

Vienna La Rouge and her sweetie turned up again. Whatever the opposite of a bad penny is, she's it: she turns up wherever I am, and she's always welcome to.

Hit Pony afterward. Chatted with English gay boys. It was noice.

If I were running a club night it would feature kinky folk and raver music. That may be one of the reasons I don't run a club night, but what I've just described is basically the all-too-infrequent Petting Zoo events. Other Burner events aren't far off, though; I just don't hear about as many of them as I used to.

Poll: Where to party?

Aug. 8th, 2025 06:15 am
sistawendy: Lego me in a red dress holding a beer tankard (celebration plastic)
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Yes, it's more than two years until my sixtieth birthday, but I'm a maniac for planning. I know I've talked about the Georgetown Steam Plant. It's visually super cool, it's got plenty of space, and it's got some amenities, but it also has no heat except for space heaters and very high ceilings. My birthday is in the middle of winter.

I was walking around Capitol Hill last night, having just had a quiet chat with queers at the Wildrose, and I walked past Sole Repair, the private event space. That got me thinking.

Poll #33472 Where to party like it's 1968
Open to: Registered Users, detailed results viewable to: All, participants: 3


Where in Seattle should I have my sixtieth birthday party?

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The Georgetown Steam Plant. Cool in every sense!
1 (33.3%)

Sole Repair. Centrally located & heated!
0 (0.0%)

One of the Masonic halls in the north end. Convenient for me!
1 (33.3%)

The Devil Girl House. Speaking of convenient!
0 (0.0%)

Something even better that I, the respondent, will describe in a comment.
1 (33.3%)

sistawendy: me in my Suffragette costume going "Eek!" (eek)
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I've recently seen the work of a crackerjack facial feminization surgeon, Dr. Tommy Liu. I thought I'd give him a call. He's booked until 2028. Just for a consult. OK, next?

I called Dr. Faceknife from 2018 and got someone else entirely. His practice has been bought by someone who got successfully sued by the Washington state attorney general for illegal NDAs, plus bribing & threatening patients into leaving positive online reviews.

Oh by the way, his quote was more than I can reasonably spend even with my inheritance; I still need to pay taxes. A surgeon with some ethics, as Dr. Faceknife appeared to be, might be cheaper, but surely not that much cheaper.

You know, I think I'm giving up on more work on my face. Edited to add: at least for now.

haunting a usual haunt

Aug. 3rd, 2025 06:34 pm
sistawendy: a cartoon of me in club clothes (dolly)
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I promised Funny Lady that I'd wear my Pride Sunday outfit to Caturday it the Merc. As I expected, she didn't show, but still, wearing Pride gear in August is a thing that should happen more often. Bonus: I sat about 10' from Dan Savage and his fella on the train to Capitol Hill. No, I didn't try to talk to him; that dude is as problematic about trans peole as he is about a lof of other things.

But! I got to Merc! There were booty shaking, peeps, beer, eye candy, and all that one expects at Castle Greyskull. I (ahem) made another outfit promise to DJ Hana Solo, a promise that I have every intention of keeping. (Foreshadowing!)

Pro tip: Betsutenjin is full by 0030. I had the munchies badly enough that I deliberately missed the last train home at Lost Lake. My timing was much better there, where as I quickly ate I watched the place go from near empty (?!) to packed. The waitress said that's why they drink. Oh Lost Lake, don't ever change.

Oh, speaking of problematic, a certain vile ex has apparently chosen Friday as the one day he'll come. He's forsaken Saturdays, which is fine with me because that's my favorite night.

I didn't get enough sleep last night, but apparently I did get enough fluids. I even got the sunday night chores done earlier than usual. Go me!
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