found: the right Thai place

Jun. 10th, 2025 06:40 am
sistawendy: a cartoon of me saying "Praise Bob!" (prabob)
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Just a few blocks down the hill from the Devil Girl House are five (5) Thai restaurants, a majority of which have disappointed me. I finally got around to trying the fifth and farthest the other day: Kaosamai. They gave me a verbal warning about the spiciness. "Understood", I said, and then proceeded to make myself hiccup with four-star eats. I'll be back.

Nice place! They have a big deck, and it's right next to Nectar.

Saturday club hopping

Jun. 9th, 2025 06:19 am
sistawendy: a cartoon of me in club clothes (dolly)
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I finally made it to the Modular monthly at Substation. Usually it's on a Sunday at 1700, but this time it was on a Saturday at 1900. It's exactly what the name suggests: a bunch of people pushing buttons and tweaking knobs on modular synthesizers. Yeah, you know that crowd was nerdy. And I'm pretty sure I wasn't the only trans lady there.

But did I like the choonz? Quite often, yeah! Honorable mention: local boy EZBOT, who reminded me by turns of Aphex Twin, drum & bass, and several others. I was a little ambivalent about club hopping to the Mercury after two of the eight (!) artists that they had lined up.

So why club hop to the Merc? Caturday, Pride edition, which I used as an excuse to wear my "I [Pride heart] [beaver graphic]" tank top. I was hoping to run into some of the trans girls from the other day. Instead, I saw a lady in a butterfly costume like the ones I saw in Sydney. In a fit of nostalgia, I went over to talk to her. Imagine my surprise when I realized it was Temptress.

Fun fact about me: like my mother, I have the world's worst poker face. I may have looked absolutely horrified at her, but only for a second. Had her vile boyfriend been with her, I wouldn't have even gone over there. I chatted about Sydney, maybe a bit nervously.

Despite being seriously caffeinated, I didn't make it to midnight. I did to a ton of bike riding and chores around the house on Saturday, so I don't feel like too much of a geezer. I have to get the Devil Girl House ready for Tacoma Girl on Saturday. (The joke here is that TG is probably the least judgy person I know.)

a meeting of the minds at the munch

Jun. 6th, 2025 03:03 pm
sistawendy: a butterfly in the style of a street sign (butterfly)
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I went to the women's munch at the Wildrose last night. Nothing unusual there, but who I ran into was: a table full of trans women in their late twenties. Trans women besides me are a regular feature at this munch, but they don't show up in a group and they're not especially young.

It's noteworthy for me because that's a trans age group that I don't typically spend much time with. There are the folks closer to my age and the teens at Lambert House, the Mercury, or (ahem) out & about, but trans women around my son's age are not the ones I usually run into. They had much to tell me:
  • There's a facial feminization surgeon around here, Dr. Liu, who does excellent work. That's something to think about if I'm ever an heiress.
  • There's been some drink-spiking at Pony lately. Uh, yikes! One or two of the assembled dolls weren't pleased with how it had been handled. That's a damn shame, because I'm one of many queers I know who otherwise love that place.
They seemed so... together. So much more than I was at their age, struggling mightily to be someone I'm not. From talking with them, at least briefly, you'd never guess that we're a community under seige.

And I'd also like to say how impressed I am with the current Washington State Ms. Leather and her partner, a former Ms. Leather, who organize this and many other shindigs. They work hard at pulling all of us non-cis-men into leather activities. Aside from warm fuzzies, there's nothing in it for them, really.

Nun remembers how to sleep.

Jun. 5th, 2025 09:51 am
sistawendy: me in the Mercury's alley with the wind catching my hair (smoldering windblown Merc alley)
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At the risk of jinxing things, I'm here to say that I've been sleeping unusually well lately. This is despite the days being nearly as long as they get around here above 47°N, and The Situation.

So why now? Well, it seems to be an annual cycle for me. My sleep sucks in February and March, but then gets better from there. The sunlight may indeed be part of it. I did recently turn off the HVAC for the whole house because it's the time of year when open windows do the job. Maybe less noise helps.

skipping out and serendipity

Jun. 2nd, 2025 06:33 am
sistawendy: a cartoon of me in club clothes (dolly)
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Saturday: skipped Modular at Gas Works, which gave me FOMO, but the weather wasn't cooperating. Hit the Merc. J made me shake my booty, which was good for me. It got going late because of Mechanismus, from which A had record recommendations that I really should look into.

While waiting for the bus home at about 0045, Much Younger Woman and her boyfriend stopped by to chat. Happiness.

Sunday: chores, sleep, and making social engagements.

Resolved: Modular on Saturday when it's indoors at Substation. I'm all about inexpensive bleepy goodness from local folks.

drive-by update

May. 31st, 2025 12:07 pm
sistawendy: me in the Mercury's alley with the wind catching my hair (smoldering windblown Merc alley)
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Thursday: drinks and chat with a gorgeous woman in latex — who's almost exactly half my age, and therefore my son's age. Hey, at least this one is queer.

Friday: mastered meatloaf, slept for about ten hours.

Earlier today: buying a watering can. You'd think that as a crazy plant lady I'd have one already, but I finally got tired of trips to the sink and spilling water with fertilizer mixed into it.

Later today: devil girl manufacturing, perhaps the Mercury. The Mighty Orb seems to have taken a short break.

a house for sale and a hullaballoo

May. 29th, 2025 11:32 am
sistawendy: me in the Mercury's alley with the wind catching my hair (smoldering windblown Merc alley)
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Welp, our new real estate agent fired us for not quickly agreeing to pour money into the house. Honestly, the United Sister Front is, well, united in thinking it's just as well. Good Sister had already asked the agent a couple of times if she really wanted to work with us. GS & I want to minimize what we spend on remodeling, and Evil Sister has registered outright opposition.

Good Sister, being the go-getter that she is, already has someone else lined up. Let's do this thing.

Took the bus to get crafting supplies yesterday evening. Overheard people talking about the anti-trans rally over the weekend in Cal Anderson Park where 23 counter-protesters were arrested. Stopped by Mr. B's on the way home, and got both a cup and a bottle of mead. Yes, all of those sentences belong together.
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